19 June 2017

Dear Son.

Dear future son,
When you’re born, you'll hear the words “Its a boy" and from that point onwards society will try to hand you this persona, gradually sweet talking you into wanting to be what it wants you to be, it'll try to mold you into this sugarcoated version of a physically strong, emotionally weak, big ego personality, then it'll tell you "that is how a "real man" behaves. 

Wisdom (Noun) The ability to use your own knowledge and experience to make good decisions and  judgements. 

Wisdom will teach you otherwise. It'll teach you to find yourself and become one with your soul,  physically AND spiritual strong, it'll teach the beauty of love, compassion and leadership. 
Before I even met your father I promised myself I’d marry a man who could show our son exactly how to be a man and let him be a boy when he needs to be. So when I look at you, I’ll see that promise fulfilled. I’m not worried about what society tells you for that very reason,  because I truly believe you will be surrounded by wisdom

There are five fundamental things I want you to always understand and those are,

1. No human is ever above or below you, equal and mutual respect is EVERYTHING! 
Treat the people who cant do anything for you exactly the way you treat the ones who can. 
Always leave people better than you found them.

2. Although having a strong character is what is expected from a boy,
 don't ever be afraid to show your true emotions when necessary, 
Communicating your fragility to the people who love you is a sign of strength NOT weakness.

3. Set objectives and outline the guidelines on how you will achieve those objectives. 
Then follow them one by one, meanwhile, remembering that being a man of your word 
brings blessings into your life, words are nothing unless they are followed by actions.

4. Don’t ever neglect family. Some will want to see you succeed and others wont want you to level up. Find a balance between the two and control it. Your only responsibility is to release good energy and love. 

5. Treat women with respect. Another soul resides in the very body you may temporarily desire and you recklessly using it wont ever set you free. A good woman is hard to find. She is worth far more than diamonds, you will trust her without reserve and never have reason to regret it. She is never spiteful and will always treat you generously. She will be wise and kind. She’ll make a house feel like a home. She will be your peace in a stressful world. Making you know in your core that you always have someone to lean on. Don't break others on your way to her and don't be deceived by those who aren't like her. She is the substance of things hoped for.

6. Last but not least, have patience, hope and faith, the best things usually come with them. No matter how long it takes or how many times you fall, gradually the things you desire will come to you. 
Too many people make mistakes when they’re too eager. They go for the first opportunity that presents itself, wether its in work or in their love life, patience  should always be one of the first things put forward. Learn to slow down and you’ll find yourself having better judgement regarding the things you are pursuing.

I look forward to teaching you even more of what my mum taught me, things I learnt alone and things I've learnt on my journey with your dad and from him. 
I look forward to watching you blossom with strong values regarding life, love, family, ambition and all the hurdles that come along the way.

Baby you are loved! 

Leave a comment below and tell me some things you'd tell your future son.

Hugs and love,

*Fathers Day Blog Post. 
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