Eventually you become content with the people who matter, the ones whose hearts order them to be by your side because strings are attached and the ones who would be at your corner in a ring attack.
See you go from loving everyone dearly, so deeply and not having that love reciprocated to being put in a situation where the good few love you back so deeply it overwhelms you.
That is when it clicks that they loved you the most all along.
Just like that friends become family, Fam- I L(ove) Y(ou)...
It's at that point in time that you know who loves you unconditionally. Who values you informally and who would give their life for you necessarily...
Actions speak louder than words, but when actions follow words thats when you see that quality beats quantity because quality loves you so much deeper than the entire quantity knows how to.
But hey if they don't know you personally don't take it personal. They may have known you! but time changes people and people move on with time. Everything has it's season and every lesson it's reason. Learn , smile, and with a glowing heart move on.
Rudy Francisco says:
“You see muscle is created by repeatedly lifting things that have been designed to weigh us down. So when your shoulders feel heavy.
Stand up straight.
Lift your chin.
Call it exercise.
When the world crumbles around you.
You have to look at the wreckage and then build a new one out of all the pieces that are still here.
Remember, you are still here.”
Because we're humans it's expected that we keep changing, keep evolving. That means loyalty too evolves, it may expire, it may pause and it might even shoot through the roof with just a little proof!
Honestly speaking, you grow up everytime something you want isn't meant for you. As each day passes be mindful of your self talk, it's your conversation with the universe. Can't catch blessings if you're too busy holding grudges...
When it's time for you to venture out don't let fear have you looking back at what you've left behind because all those should haves, could have happened if both of you were invested, not just a one sided deal.
It's funny how you get to know someone from their absence